Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Mars vs Venus



There are differences between men and women, we are all well aware of this.  We think differently, act differently, and our bodies are built differently.  In the first week with the New Trainer I'm already learning that male trainers and female trainers are very different and that I am lucky to get to train with both!

One of the things I learned today was that because our pelvis is shaped differently movements like lunges should be performed differently.  Most of us have been taught to do a lunge straight on with a straight frame.  That's great for men, whose pelvis is aligned straight down.  A woman's pelvis is shaped inward like a V.  When we do a lunge like a man does it causes that pinching feeling in our hips.  Instead try placing your front foot to the outside of your hip span...think the walk the Monkees did.  No pinch!  Its called a diagonal lunge if you are looking it up.


It's been different working with a woman.  Our conversations are different and she has a different perspective on fitness, bodies, and she gets body image issues so much better than a guy does.  I'm not saying its better having a woman, the male trainer also had a lot of benefits.  He provides a source of competition and pushes harder.  His perspective was different than mine, which is always a good thing, and our conversations were entertaining.  I'm just saying it's different.  Like I said, I'm lucky to get to train with both!

Happy learning.

Monday, March 3, 2014

Mixed Reactions

I'm super psyched about the results I'm getting and lots of people are starting to comment on the changes they are seeing.  My face has really thinned out in particular so it's getting noticeable.  What surprises me is that not all of the comments are positive.  Most people give a simple "you've lost weight" with a smile.  In the last couple of days I've had two interactions in particular that were less than positive.  One lady said "you've lost weight!"  I smiled and said thank you, and she replied: "I didn't say it was a good thing".  WHOA.  Another gentleman said "someone needs to throw you a sandwich".  Ummmmmm..... what?


According to the Body Mass Index I am just, JUST into the healthy zone finally (yay).  I am still at the high end.  How can I need a sandwich when I was so recently overweight?  What does it say about our society when a woman who is a healthy weight is considered too thin?

More than the types of comments, I am surprised by the sheer amount of comments and opinions that are shared with me now.  I never used to get comments on my body before.  What changed that makes people want to share their opinions on my body?  My pregnant friends have the same issue with people suddenly feeling free to touch their stomachs.  What is that?


A few weeks ago I had a conversation with someone about developing a six pack and the comment was "girls shouldn't have six packs".  My answer was "well this one will".  I am going to be a muscular girl.  I am going to be proud of my body and the work and dedication that I have put into it.  The negative people can think what they like, and they can even voice their opinion all they like.  I will be strong.